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Top 8 Best Realistic Dildos + Buyers Guide (2023)

What is a realistic dildo?

Realistic dildos are designed and manufactured by sex toy companies to look like, or at least closely resemble, a real man's hard penis. Some of these lifelike dildos can be so realistic that it is hard to tell at a glance if they are real or artificial. This type of dildo is often referred to as "super realistic," "hyper realistic," "ultra realistic" or even "extremely realistic." 

Even though it may seem that these dildos could not be made anymore life-like, sex toy companies still somehow find new and interesting ways to make their dildos even look more real every single year. This involves using innovative new materials and designing new manufacturing processes.

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Most of the best realistic dildos on the market have a hard interior core that is covered in a soft and realistic exterior, often made from silicone or other similar materials. The most common method used by manufacturers is the dual layered process, which involves using a stiff inner core covered by a soft flexible exterior or "foreskin." This allows the dildo to remain firm while also making for a comfortable riding experience.

Realistic dildos vary in sizes, with the most common dildos coming in 6 inch, 7 inch, 8 inch, 9 inch and even 10 inch sizes. Some more experienced users even opt for 11 inch or 12 inch realistic dildos, but this would not be recommended for a beginner. According to new statistics, the most popular size for realistic dildos is between 7 inches and 8 inches in length. Because of this, you will see often see sex toys manufacturers promoting dildos that are around 7.5 inches in size.

To add even more detail, some lifelike dildos are painted by professional artisans to give them an even more refined and realistic look.

How are realistic dildos made?

The material and shape of modern realistic dildos are the main differentiating factor between them and the rest of the dildo category. The first dildos available to consumers were not realistic, and were instead objects made from materials like stainless steel, plastics and sometimes silicone. 

The best realistic dildos are often made from specialized materials, such as Cyberskin, UR3, silicone or jelly - however cheaper dildos have been known to be made of plastics.

  • Silicone rubber dildos became famous during the 1990s. At first costly, the expense of silicone dildos has dropped after some time. Silicone is impervious to unintentional harm, non-permeable, and can be sanitized effectively, making silicone dildos more solid and clean than dildos made of other delicate materials. Silicone dildos lead vibration well, and can be utilized in blend with a vibrator.
     
  • Cyberskin (which is a combination of PVC and silicone) and several other patented materials are designed to have a surface similar to human skin, which is utilized for dildos, vibrators and other sexual toys. It is very permeable and requires special care before and after use.
     
  • PVC and jelly-rubber dildos are hazardous due to the fact that they contain dangerous phthalates, which are conditioners that are added to numerous plastics - plastics that are also found in some jewelry, food containers, and other soft rubber toys. Phthalates are connected to medical issues like malignant growth and prenatal defects. Items made of PVC or jelly-rubber can't be sanitized. Makers suggest utilizing condoms with these toys on the off chance that their customers share them.

Buying a realistic dildo

Sizing:
This is one of the most important things to consider when purchasing a realistic dildo. As mentioned earlier, most people are comfortable with a dildo between 7 inches and 8 inches in size. However, dildos comes in all sorts of different shapes and sizes so its important to know what you are looking for - as well as what you are capable of taking. If it's too small, it just won’t hit the spot. If it's too big, you might not ever use it. The rest of this guide will help you to choose the best realistic dildo for you.

Special features:
There are so may types of dildos on the market with so many different features. There are dildos that can vibrate, dildos that can twist and heat up, dildos that can even ejaculate! So what features do you want? This is a necessary question to ask yourself, especially when it comes to dildos.

Materials:
Commonly, dildos are made out of four different types of materials: jelly or elastomer, silicone, soft skin, or acrylic and glass. If you are allergic to any of these materials, make sure to check what your dildo is made out of before purchasing, and especially before you use it.

 

1. The Super Realistic Dildo

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This one is the most popular realistic dildos of 2023. With hundreds of orders per month from over 45 countries, and 100+ reviews, it's proven itself to be popular due to its perfect 7.5 inch size, its realistic look and feel, and its irresistible price.

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2. The Extremely Realistic Dildo

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This dildo is the second most popular, especially in the United States, Australia and Canada. This dildo is popular because of its extreme, almost scary, level of realness. At 7.9 inches, its the perfect size for everyone. 

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3. The Ultra Realistic Dildo

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This dildo is the third most popular realistic dildo on our store. However, its not far behind second place. This dildo is popular with gay men because of its sizes (it comes in 8.3 inch, 9 inch and 10.5 inch sizes) which make it VERY versatile. It's also popular because of its realistic look and feel, with veins, a soft material and a strong suction cup. 

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4. The Hyper Realistic Dildo

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In fourth place, this dildo is popular because it is extremely realistic. At 10 inches, it's definitely not for the faint hearted. I mean, look at it - it's a beautiful dildo. 

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5. 7 Inch And 8 Inch Very Realistic Dildo

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This dildo is fifth on the list because of its immense popularity with customers, its realistic design, and its affordable pricetag. It comes in both 7 inch and 8 inch sizes, which as I mentioned earlier, are some of the most popular sizes with consumers who are looking to shop for new sex toys.

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6. Realistic 8 Inch Loose Skin Dildo

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Gay men around the world love this specific dildo because of its realistic uncut look and feel, including its impressive sliding foreskin design. At 8 inches, its perfect for just about anyone - especially if you're an uncut cock lover. 

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7. Realistic Ejaculating Dildo

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This dildo is seventh on the list because of its amazing ability to "ejaculate" on command. Feel the pleasure of a man cumming inside you with this Gays+ exclusive product, just for gay guys. All you have to do is squeeze! At 8.2 inches, its sure to please.

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8. Realistic Clear Dildo

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And lastly, we have the ever popular ultra-realistic transparent dildo. This dildo is a hit with customers because of its clear design, and of course its incredibly low price tag. At 8 inches, it's the perfect size to pleasure you without hurting.

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