The 10 best sex toys for gay men
These are the toys gay guys actually buy from us, most popular first, with their real ratings. If you’re new, start with something small and body-safe, plus plenty of water-based lube.
| Product | Rating | Price |
|---|---|---|
| 1. Super-Realistic 7.5 Inch Dildo | 4.6★ (121) | $39.99 |
| 2. Extremely Realistic Dildo | 4.7★ (54) | $79.99 |
| 3. Ultra-Realistic Dildo | 4.7★ (61) | $49.99 |
| 4. Cock and Balls Ring | 4.4★ (18) | $14.99 |
| 5. Hyper Realistic Dildo | 4.7★ (41) | $69.00 |
| 6. Automatic Douche | 4.6★ (56) | $49.99 |
| 7. Ultra Tight Clear Stroker | 4.7★ (32) | $24.99 |
| 8. Male Ass Masturbator | 4.8★ (41) | $149.99 |
| 9. Prostate Stimulator | 4.4★ (9) | $69.95 |
| 10. Prostate Massager with Wireless Remote | 4.6★ (8) | $49.95 |
Super-Realistic 7.5 Inch Dildo
Our best-selling realistic dildo: a veiny silicone cock with full balls and a suction cup that sticks to walls, floors and shower tiles.
$39.99See details
Extremely Realistic Dildo
An extremely realistic 7.9" silicone cock with a natural foreskin, pores and veins, and a strong suction cup so you can ride it hands-free.
$79.99See details
Ultra-Realistic Dildo
An ultra-realistic silicone cock with pores, veins and balls, a suction cup that leaves no marks and a fully waterproof body.
$49.99See details
Cock and Balls Ring
Our best-selling cock and balls ring: ultra-stretchy silicone that wraps your shaft and balls to keep you rock hard for longer and make you cum harder.
$14.99See details
Hyper Realistic Dildo
A hyper-realistic XL silicone cock with foreskin, veins, pores and big balls, plus a strong suction cup.
$69.00See details
Automatic Douche
An electric anal douche with a five-hole spout, three power settings and two nozzles, so your ass is clean, fresh and ready to get fucked in minutes.
$49.99See details
Ultra Tight Clear Stroker
A best-selling clear stroker with a tight, ribbed hole that grips and releases your cock on every thrust.
$24.99See details
Male Ass Masturbator
A life-size, realistic male ass masturbator with a tight, textured hole for deep, lifelike fucking.
$149.99See details
Prostate Stimulator
A rechargeable prostate stimulator that sits right on your P-spot, with four pulsation modes, Bluetooth app control and long-distance partner play.
$69.95See details
Prostate Massager with Wireless Remote
A prostate massager with a built-in cock ring, nine vibration modes and a 32 ft wireless remote.
$49.95See details
What to look for
- Body-safe materials: silicone, glass or metal are non-porous and easy to clean.
- A flared base or handle on anything that goes in your ass.
- A size you’ll actually enjoy. Width matters more than length.
- Rechargeable over batteries for anything with a motor.
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Good questions
What’s the best sex toy for a gay beginner?
A small butt plug or a slim prostate massager, used with plenty of water-based lube, is the easiest place to start.
How is this list ranked?
By how many Gays+ customers bought each toy, then by how many reviewed it. Ratings are shown exactly as customers left them.
Is the packaging discreet?
Yes. Every order ships in plain packaging with nothing on the outside to say what’s inside.