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Underwear, outfits, gifts and flags
Pride flags and their meanings: every flag explained
The rainbow flag, the Progress flag, the gay men’s flag and more: what each one stands for and where it came from.
Read the guideThe jockstrap guide: how to wear one, and why guys love them
How a jockstrap should fit, the styles to choose from, and how to wear one with confidence.
Read the guideMen’s underwear styles explained: jockstraps, briefs, thongs and more
From barely-there thongs to comfy boxers: what each style does, how it should fit and when to wear it.
Read the guideHow to wear a harness: chest, shoulder and full-body styles
Chest, shoulder or full body: how to pick a harness, get the fit right and build a look around it.
Read the guideWhat to wear to Pride: outfit ideas for gay guys
From a simple rainbow tee to a full harness look: Pride outfit ideas, and what to bring for a long day out.
Read the guideGift ideas for gay men: pride gifts he’ll actually use
Birthdays, anniversaries, Pride or the holidays: gifts for gay guys that are fun to open and actually get used.
Read the guideThe bear and leather pride flags: history and meaning
Two flags you’ll spot at every Pride: where the bear and leather flags came from and what they stand for.
Read the guideHow to measure your underwear size (jockstraps, briefs and boxers)
Two measurements, one tape and five minutes: how to find your size in every style, and what to do when you’re between sizes.
Read the guideWhere to buy gay men’s underwear online: 10 stores compared
We checked prices, sizes, shipping and returns at nine underwear stores on 7 October 2026, plus our own, so you can find the right jock without the guesswork.
Read the guideGay slang explained: bears, otters, twinks, daddies and more
The words gay men use for body types and scenes, from bears and otters to twinks and daddies, with where they came from and how to use them kindly.
Read the guideWhere to buy pride flags: 3x5 prices compared
We compared 3x5 ft rainbow and Progress flags on 7 October 2026, from $6 printed polyester to $147 hand-sewn, so you know what you’re paying for.
Read the guideGay Halloween costume ideas for guys
Easy, sexy or all-out: Halloween costume ideas for gay guys, built from things you’ll actually wear again.
Read the guideToys, lube, douching and play
Our sex and toy guides live in the adult shop, for adults 18+. Go to the adult shop
Growing an audience and advertising to gay men
How to promote your OnlyFans on X as a gay creator
What to post, how often, which settings matter, and how to tell whether promotion is actually bringing you subscribers.
Read the guideHow to advertise to gay men online
Where gay men actually see brands, what targeting you can still use, and how to tell what’s working.
Read the guideRanked by what customers buy
The 10 best jockstraps
The jockstraps customers buy most, with their real ratings. Check the size guide on each product: a good jock fits snug in the pouch with straps that don’t dig.
See the listThe 10 best gay underwear
The underwear customers buy most, across every style, with their real ratings. Not sure which style suits you? Our guide to men’s underwear styles explains each one.
See the listThe 10 best pride shirts
The pride shirts and tanks customers buy most, with their real ratings. For a parade, order two to three weeks ahead and check the delivery estimate on each product page.
See the listThe 10 best pride flags
The flags customers buy most, with their real ratings. Our flag meanings guide explains what each design stands for.
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