The adult shop
Toys and essentials made for gay guys. Best sellers first, and every order ships in plain, unbranded packaging.
Discreet by defaultPlain packaging with no Gays+ branding or marketing on the outside.
Secure checkoutEncrypted payment, and no account needed.
Questions welcomeTalk to us before or after you order.
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The best sex toys for gay beginners: a starter kit that won’t scare you
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Read the guideWhere to buy sex toys discreetly: 11 online stores compared
We checked the packaging, billing names, returns and prices at 11 online stores on 7 October 2026, Gays+ included, so you can pick the one that fits your life.
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Read the guideThe lube guide: water-based vs silicone lube, and when to use each
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Read the guideAbout the adult shop
Welcome to the Gays+ adult shop: sex toys picked for gay guys, from realistic dildos and prostate massagers to strokers, cock rings, butt plugs and douches. Everything ships in plain, unbranded packaging, and your statement shows our business name, never the product. New to toys? Start with a small plug or a beginner-friendly prostate massager and plenty of lube. Size queen? Our realistic dildos go all the way to 12.6". Whatever you’re into, it’s here, without the awkward trip to a sex shop.
Read the guide: The best sex toys for gay beginners: a starter kit that won’t scare you See the 10 best sex toys for gay men, ranked by customersGood questions
Is the packaging really discreet?
Yes. Every order ships in plain packaging with no Gays+ branding or product names on the outside, and card and PayPal statements show our business name, never what you bought.
What’s the best first sex toy for a gay guy?
A small butt plug or a beginner-friendly prostate massager is a great start. Use plenty of water-based lube, go slowly, and choose body-safe materials like silicone.
Which lube should I use with my toys?
Water-based lube works with every toy and condom. Avoid silicone lube with silicone toys, because it can damage the surface. Metal and glass toys work with any lube.
Can I return a sex toy?
For hygiene reasons, used intimate products can’t be returned for a change of mind. Unused items in their original packaging can be returned within 30 days of delivery, and faulty items are always covered.
For adults 18 and over. Please use every product as directed and check materials before use. Looking for underwear and apparel? Visit the main store.